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Open-Mindedness: Helping Children Learn to Listen and Consider
Hello WCA family!
We now move our Intellectual Virtues discussion to the third category of Handling Challenges. In this category the virtues are OPEN-MINDEDNESS, COURAGE, and TENACITY. With that…let’s begin this final section!
What is intellectual open-mindedness? It is the willingness to listen carefully to different ideas and consider them thoughtfully, even when we may initially disagree. Open-mindedness does not mean accepting every idea as true, but it does mean being willing to give ideas a fair hearing.
I like to say that we want to be open-minded…but not to the point that your brains fall out!
Additionally, we have to CLOSE our minds upon the TRUTH. Yes, consider different ideas, but do not be blown about by every wind of doctrine or alleged smart thing that we hear or see or read. We must close our minds on the TRUTH once it has been ascertained.
At Warner Christian Academy, we encourage students to engage with ideas in a thoughtful and respectful way. Open-mindedness helps students grow in understanding because it allows them to learn from others, evaluate different perspectives, and refine their thinking. It creates space for meaningful discussion and deeper learning.
In today’s world, open-mindedness can be difficult to practice. Conversations can quickly become polarized, and there is often pressure to defend a position without truly listening. Without open-mindedness, students may dismiss ideas too quickly or fail to fully understand perspectives that differ from their own. Developing this virtue helps students pursue truth with both conviction and humility.
The other side is true, too…We might be encouraged to be TOO open-minded. For example, in our culture today, you are considered a closed-minded bigot if you don’t ACCEPT and AFFIRM every single thought process or lifestyle or hair-brained idea. And that pressure is all too real in our kids.
At home, open-mindedness is often shaped through everyday conversations. When children are encouraged to listen without interrupting, consider another person’s point of view, and respond thoughtfully, they begin to develop the ability to engage ideas with wisdom and grace.
One simple way to encourage open-mindedness at home is to ask your child to explain a viewpoint they disagree with. Questions like, “Can you explain why someone might think that?” help children learn to understand before responding. This builds the habit of listening carefully and considering ideas fairly.
Another helpful practice is modeling respectful disagreement. When discussing a topic, you might say, “I see that a little differently, and here’s why…” This shows children that it is possible to hold firm beliefs while still engaging others with respect and thoughtfulness.
Scripture calls us to this kind of posture. James 1:19 reminds us, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” Listening well is a key part of loving others and pursuing truth.
Conversation starter:
“Can you think of a time when someone helped you see something differently?”
This week at home:
- Practice: Ask your child to explain a different perspective on a topic before sharing their own opinion.
- Model: Demonstrate respectful listening and thoughtful responses in conversations.
- Pray: “Lord, help us to listen well, consider others carefully, and seek Your truth with humility and wisdom.”
As we nurture open-mindedness together, at school and at home, we help students develop the ability to engage the world with both conviction and grace. Open-mindedness strengthens understanding and prepares students to pursue truth thoughtfully in a complex world.
Soli Deo Gloria!